Tender Treasure :: Stanley

12:47 AM

To kick off my Tender Treasures series, I decided to tell you the story of Stanley Mbowane, 23 years old. Stanley has a special place in my heart because he is in our Discipleship Training School that I am leading. He comes from a child headed household and his story is quite heartbreaking but God is so good, isn't He?! This might get a little long, but, trust me, you are going to want to keep reading.

I asked Stanley to tell me in his words the story of his family life and what it was like growing up in a child headed household. I felt like I was reading a book as I read his heart on paper.

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"I lost my mother when I was 6 months old. I never knew her but I wish I had. I was raised by my aunt in a village called Marite. I stayed with her for 5 years. My father would come and visit me there. I didn't even know that I had brothers.

Then, in 1990 I moved to another village called Masoyi where I met my brothers for the first time. We spoke different languages so that was difficult at first. My father took another wife but my stepmom did not like me. I was getting one meal a day. My father didn't support me, with clothes, food, school fees, etc. He didn't do anything for my brothers, but my grandmother was the mercy one who cared for us. She paid our school fees, and bought us food and clothes with the hope that my brothers and I would get a good education and have a good life.

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My father would spend more than 3 months at a time in Johannesburg without coming home. He would send money, but we never saw the use of the money at home, because we weren't getting food. Our stepmom was buying food and hiding it in her bedroom. So when she wasn't around, we would go in and take the food and whatever we found useful. She would tell my father and he would beat us when he came home. We would sleep on the floor with one blanket. Life wasn't easy, but we got used to it and faced what we had.

In 2002, my father died and our stepmom ran away. We tried to call her but she never answered her phone. We never saw her again. So we became a child headed household. Life became even harder. My grandmother could only support us R100 a month (equivalent of $10) to pay for food, clothes, and electricity."

How did you come to know Jesus?

"My aunt encouraged us to speak with a social worker. We met an organization called Masoyi Home Based Care which brought us lots of hope. They provided us with food parcels, school uniforms, and school fees. It was also in my heart to help people because of how I grew up. I started to get involved with the youth program. I had a passion to work with youth and a great time. I worked there for 4 years as a volunteer. Every Thursday, I met with a man to talk about Jesus. I realized there was a Father who loves me so much. And I gave my life to Jesus.

I saw God provide for me in so many ways but I still didn't really understand what it meant to be a Christian. I struggled with my spiritual life for 3 years. Then I told my friend that I wanted to go to a missionary school."

Why did you want to do the training school and how has God impacted you through it?

"I met some of the staff from Ten Thousand Homes and in 2008, they invited me to attend the Discipleship Training School. I prayed about it and felt like God said I should do it. They said there was space available, so in January I came.

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I had a big change in my life that I can't explain. I am not the same Stanley that I used to be. I am so glad that I am doing the school. I don't live the same life that I used to live. I have a new new home where there are people who really care about me. Not just by words but also with their actions. I am really enjoying what I am doing. If they said I could do the school a second time, I would! I have gotten to know God more."

I have seen Stanley grow so much as he has engaged God during this school. He has understood God and His love for him in new ways and it's been such a treat to watch that revelation go to his heart. I hope you were able to pray for him as you read his story. Maybe some of you read it and your heart was really touched and you're thinking, "What can I do to help?" Stanley's training school is leaving for outreach on April 6th. Their team of 7 is going to Mozambique and Uganda to bring the love of Jesus to orphans there. The cost for them to go is R20,000 each (close to a year's wages for an African). If you feel led to give toward Stanley's outreach costs, no matter the amount, I invite you to do so. You can go online to www.TenThousandHomes.org and make a donation. Just specify, "Stanley Mbowane DTS outreach." To give by check, make your check payable to Ten Thousand Homes and send to:

Ten Thousand Homes
P.O. Box 118
Wylie, TX 75098

Also, include a separate note designating it for Stanley. Thank you for investing in the lives of orphans through your prayers and giving!

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3 comments

  1. Hey there! I see your blog visits have picked up! Love the giveaway idea!

    Just wanted to let you know that Pieter and I prayed for you guys tonight and are excited about whatever the future has in store for you.

    I'm still hoping that we will be able to do DTS somewhere sometime in the future, hopefully with you guys! I can dream!

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  2. Aahhhh! i miss a lot of your entries, somehow it wasn't showing any changes in your blog in mine. Now i have a lot to catch up :).
    Thanks so much for sharing Stanley's story. What a blessing to see someone, not just getting saved, but really giving all his life to God.

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  3. Thank you for sharing Stanley's story. We will pray for him this week. God bless!

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